Saturday 6 October 2012

I meant to say many things along the way.


                You are stronger than any situation. You are stronger than any doubt. You are stronger than everyone else thinks you are, stronger than you were yesterday. You can do whatever it is you want, whatever you decide you are going to do. Now, what are you waiting for? 

                When you allow yourself to become an option to a person, you let yourself become a number. When you become a number to them you become a game to them. When you become a game to them they will never become serious about you. They might win you now but won't care about losing you later. You control how you allow the people in your life to treat you. So if you're going to be a number be number 1. If you're going to be an option be the only option. If you're going to become a game learn how to play it.
   
             You ever heard the expression “the best things in live are free”? Well, that expression is true. Every once in a while, people step up they rise above themselves…sometimes they surprise you and sometimes they fall short. Life is funny sometimes. It can push pretty hard but if you look close enough, you can find hope in the words of children, in the bars of the song and in the eyes of someone you love. And if you're lucky, if you're the luckiest person on this entire planet, the person you love decides to love you back…

"Regret makes you old, and bitterness poisons the people around you"

                Regret comes in all shapes and sizes. Some are small like when we do a bad thing for a good reason. Some are bigger like when you let down a friend. Some of us escape the pain of regret by making the right choice. Some of us have little time for regret because we're looking forward to the future. Sometimes we have to fight to come to terms with the past, and sometimes we bury our regret by promising to change your own ways. But, our biggest regrets are not for the things we did '' but, for the things we didn't do. Things we didn't say that could've save someone that we care about. Especially when we can see the dark storm that's headed their way

                "Letting go" is like taking out a tooth. When you pull it out, you feel relieved, but how many times did you put your tongue in the space where it was? Probably many times a day. Just because it didn't hurt, doesn't mean you didn't notice it. It leaves a space and sometimes you see yourself missing it terribly. It's gonna take a while, but.. Did you have to keep the tooth? No, because it was hurtful. Sooo, move forward and let go. You cannot run away from a weakness; you must sometimes fight it out or perish. And if that be so, why not now, and where you stand?"

                Have you ever wondered what marks our time here-if one life can really make an impact on the world or if the choices we make matter? Sometimes in order to move forward, you have to go back…in this case, just a few minutes…Have you ever wondered what marks our time here-if one life can really make an impact on the world or if the choices we make matter? I believe they do. And I believe that one man can change many lives-for better or worse.

                Happiness comes in many forms. In the company of good friends, in the feeling you get when you make someone else’s dreams come true, or in a promise of hope renewed.  It’s ok to let yourself be happy, because you never know how great that happiness might be. Sometimes pain becomes such a huge part of your life that you expect it to always be there, because you can’t remember a time in your life when it wasn’t. But then one day you feel something else. Something that feels wrong only because it’s so unfamiliar, and in that moment you realize you’re happy.

                Most of our life is a series of images. They pass us by like towns on the highway. But sometimes, a moment stuns us as it happens. And we know that this instant is more than a fleeting image. We know that this moment... every part of it... will live on forever.

“Truth is still absolute. Believe that. Even when that truth is hard and cold, and more painful than you've ever imagined. And even when truth is more cruel than any lie.”

                It's sad to look back at old conversations and wonder what changed, maybe nothing changed and you like to think it's your idea but things aren't just the way they used to be before. Don't worry baby, you will see me again. You'll see me with a girl who treats me right. A girl who knows how to love me. You'll see all you could have had. And you'll regret. You'll regret like hell. You'll regret letting me go. But the thing that I want you to see the most? You'll see, I survived without you.

                Yeah, losing your heart’s desire is tragic. But gaining your heart’s desire... It’s all you can hope for. This year, I wished for love. To immerse myself in someone else and to wake a heart long afraid to feel. My wish was granted. And if having that is tragic… then give me tragedy. Because, I wouldn’t give it back for the world.

"Everybody has met or will meet that one person that will change them forever. After that, nobody else can even compare."